By Rachel Stalker
It is a truth universally acknowledged that a young man in possession of a large fortune must be in want of a Marriage Tax Allowance.
Or not…as the case may be.
It also appears to be a “truth universally acknowledged” that the bible, and by extension, the church, is in favour of marriage.
This is only partially true. People who are married should love, care and remain faithful to one another. People with children should treat their responsibilities as parents with the utmost seriousness.
But Jesus Himself never married and St. Paul was single when he wrote the Epistles. Both talk in glowing terms about the advantages of staying single. Responding to a query on the subject from the church in Corinth , St Paul replies:
“Now for the matters you wrote about: it is good for a man not to marry.”
Their reasoning is spiritual but can easily be applied to the secular realm. Single people have more time to devote to wholehearted service in their community and further afield. From Elizabeth I through Florence Nightingale to Ted Heath, our nation owes a great deal to the services of single people.
World War 1, in which hundreds of thousands of single men gave their lives fighting for our country, left 2 million “spare” single women in the UK – women who, even if they had wanted to buy into the “Cult of Domesticity” would never have the opportunity. Indeed, it was these women who helped forge a new future for women that didn’t involve domesticity – emancipation and workplace rights.
Those of us who are Christian and have found ourselves on the left of British politics are here because our heart is for the outcast, the lonely, those who fall outside the support structures offered by “traditional” family life; those who don’t have a “family” to share a “family Christmas” with; the elderly who don’t have family to care for them or visit them; the young widow or abandoned wife for whom marriage is only a fading memory.
But we are also here for the heroes – for those who, with courage, tenacity, and perhaps even silent lonely tears – use their available time and resources to serve others. They are the backbone of any “Big Society” worth the name. But will our tax system ever recognise them?
Rachel Stalker is CLP Women’s Officer in Hertford & Stortford, an active member of CSM and a Future Candidates’ Programme participant.
Labels: Elizabeth I, Florence Nightingale, marriage, Politics, Sir Edward Heath, tax